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Another Layout Finished!

Posted at 08:41 AM | 2 comment(s)

I made another layout and this one is for Katrina.

Click here for the screenshot.

Tell me what you think about it okay? Is it any good?



Currently feeling: accomplished



No Classes Today Because of Yoyong

Posted at 09:03 AM | 4 comment(s)

favorite Well, I'm not really in school so it doesn't count for me, but it counts for everyone else and especially to those who would be affected by the super typhoon.

Malabon, Navotas braces for 'Yoyong' (24 Oras Video) inq7.net

I am fearing the super typhoon 'Yoyong'. Though Manila is only Signal No. 2 I fear for those in the areas covered by Signal Nos. 3 and 4. The previous typhoon Winnie left hundreds of people dead. What would be the fate of others with the super typhoon Yoyong? Surely more would have problems. Even the government. If I had lots of money I would send a chopper so that the GMA Kapuso Foundation and others could transport their goods to the affected areas especially those that are now homeless and are probably swimming in the murky flood. Now, after Winnie, here comes Yoyong to even destroy our already problem-buried country. How could life get any worse?

(Inq7.net Update News on Yoyong)


If you read the snipped entries, imagine the 186 kph velocity of the wind? Isn't that enough to remove roofs of houses? Destroy the shanty houses? Uproot trees? Create landslides and enormous flashfloods? Isn't that strong enough to kill lots of people? We're already in the middle of a fiscal crisis and here comes another disaster. I just hope our country would be strong enough to withstand the threats upon us. God, help us.



Currently feeling: contemplative



Shocking!

Posted at 06:18 PM | 8 comment(s)

The last time I checked my mail was about 4-5 hours ago.. And guess what?



Shocking isn't it? The most I got was 60 unread messages but that was for a day. And this was less than 24 hours.



Currently feeling: amused



CSS Change

Posted at 08:48 PM | 6 comment(s)

Whew! Previously, viewers of my site were having problems viewing mine because the right nav was overlapping the center div.

Problem solved! No matter what size your browser is and your screen resolution is, you can view my site perfectlly without overlapping divs. You just have to scroll horizontally though.

:) I'm all smiles now coz that means I don't have to change my layout to a two-column.. I'm so lazy to make my own layout. :)

By the way, the layouts I made for Katrina and for Andrea are now up! I feel proud though I'm not a web design master. Teehee.



Currently feeling: proud



Layout Requests

Posted at 11:59 PM | any comment?

I've been having a lot of requests layout. Including a layout for a blogger account. my oh my! I'm not even used to how BLOGGER do it. I'm used to tabulas. *sigh*

so I made an account at blogger. but I doubt if it would be updated. Tabulas would still be my home. and that would be forever. Besides, I love Roy. :)

Haay. Better get started studying Blogger.



Currently feeling: amused



SIEGE the day!

Posted at 09:50 PM | 4 comment(s)

I've come across this great site. And I wouldn't mind if you give it a visit. You won't regret clicking the image below.

Currently listening to: If I Ain't Got You by Alicia Keys

Currently feeling: calm



Change in Music

Posted at 01:27 AM | any comment?

I've changed the music here.

From the dropdown playlist to the one-song player.

Do you like it?

Which is better?

Do you like the SATC theme song played here or the whole SATC album?

Comments are very much appreciated. Thank you!



Currently feeling: curious



To All Music_HTML fans

Posted at 03:04 PM | 2 comment(s)

Please! Please! Link to Music_HTML.

Copy and paste the following code:



Thank you!






Truth About Love

Posted at 01:41 PM | 2 comment(s)

Disclaimer: I got this one from Bibay and she got it from her friend. I posted it in my blog so that I'll remember. This is the answer to the almost - unanswerable question about love. Who will you choose: the one you love or the one who loves you?



Here's the answer to the question on what to prefer: the one who loves you or the one you love...

This is also for those who are waiting for the person they love to love them back openly...

Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us.

We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns.

Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words, for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the man whom loves you more.

The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being.

Letting go does not mean that you love the person less and holding on does not mean you love the person more.

To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back.

Letting go is not just setting the other person free but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it.

You may find peace in just loving someone from a distance and not expecting anything in return.

But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow.

We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.

There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship... don't be so bitter about it! For it is a kind of FRIENDSHIP that will last for a LIFETIME!!! We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.

You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible, and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.

Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow: If you lose love that doesn't mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you.

And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.



Currently feeling: MUSHY



Changes and Additions in Layout

Posted at 11:25 PM | 1 comment(s)

This day, I recoded my whole layout. I was originally planning to make a new layout. But, can't decide on what to do. So I just recoded the whole page so that everything would load faster. I just hope it would. Coz I've followed the tips and rules to make pages load faster. I've lessened the codes. I've added more on the styles. :)

Celebrity Blogs

I've added a lot of links now. :) That's most of what I know. :D

    Things I've Changed

  • body cursor: from the normal arrow to crosshair

  • CSS: I changed it to one that is used by Tabulas

  • Width and Height: I've added the dimensions to the image tag to make them load faster

  • Alt tags: I've added alt texts to images that need them

  • 0 border tag: Instead of putting it in every img tag I've placed it in the styles section

  • Link Updates

  • Input Area: I styled it! :)

  • Tagboard Changes: font, colors, input area, button

  • Minipoll: btw, thanks for those who voted! Changed the colors though. :)



Well, that's basically it. Hope you like it now. :)

Currently listening to: SATC Theme song
Currently reading: none
Currently feeling: creative



Yoyong Images

Posted at 12:28 AM | 17 comment(s)

I know it's too late to post about Yoyong, the alleged super typhoon, but I just want to share pictures I've taken.

This is what the other side of the Philippines during the storm Yoyong was






Thanks to Yahoo!



This is what's happening outside our home

Disclaimer: The house in the picture is not mine. It's our neighbors'.

Yoyong 01
Yoyong 01
Can you see the tree's moving?

Yoyong 02
Yoyong 02
It's a dark night and the wind is howling.

Yoyong 03
Yoyong 03
The camera moved. Sorry. But you can still see the movement of the trees.

Yoyong 04
Yoyong 04
Oh oh. The rain's coming my way.

Yoyong 05
Yoyong 05
Big raindrops ahead!



Typhoons Winnie and Yoyong destroyed our country.

I think it's Nature's way of telling us to take of our world. No more to illegal logging. No more to smoke belching. No more thick smoke from factories. No more chemicals. No more harmful things.

Look at what happened. It's Nature's way of banging our heads on the wall to wake us up to reality that we're killing our world slowly. It's Nature's painful, slow death.

Ouch!



Currently feeling: contemplative



Friendster totally SUCKS!

Posted at 11:06 PM | 18 comment(s)

Problem: Can't log in to friendster.
Reason: There was an error and it says that my email address is not a valid Friendster login.



Click the above picture for full view.

Anyway, I've been using that account for more than a year now. The last time I checked was 2 days ago, specifically the night of December 6th. I tried to log in to friendster this morning but unfortunately, I get that error message. HOW THE HELL WOULD IT BE INVALID WHEN I WAS USING THAT EMAIL ADDRESS FOR MORE THAN A YEAR NOW. DAMMIT FRIENDSTER! STOP SUCKING, please.

All my efforts there would be so wasted if they don't give me back my account. I've also emailed them already at help@friendster.com.

They'd better give it back and make sure nothing's lost. I've tried logging in this night too. And I can't log in.

Badtrip! I know Friendster has an ocassional system down but then, why does it have to be me? And what if my account was removed? Damn! I'll sue them. Well, not really sue. But they'll pay for this.

EDIT: My hate for friendster grows.



Currently feeling: crushed



Since Friendster Still Sucks...

Posted at 03:17 PM | 1 comment(s)

I still don't have my old account.

BUT I made a new one. So invite me you guys.

blossom_017@yahoo.com

If Friendster won't give me my old account back, well, can't do anything about it right? I was hacked. I was deleted from their system.

Let's just all pray for the poor soul who did this to me. May he burn in Hell for eternity. Oh, let's be kinder. May his poor soul rest in peace and refrain from hacking other accounts.

Anyway, I'll tell you if they returned my old account. If they did, bless Friendster and I'll spread the word about their good deed. If not, let's just pray that Friendster won't last for 5 years. Lolz.

I'm wicked. I'm in a bad mood. And I'm tired. So Friendster, don't mess with me.



By the way, Thank You for all the supporters of Music_HTML. Don't worry, I'll update soon.



Currently feeling: annoyed



Happy Birthday Ma!

Posted at 12:00 AM | 3 comment(s)

This is a special post:

Happy Birthday Mama! I love you so much!






Someone was spamming my minipoll

Posted at 12:56 AM | 4 comment(s)

Well, I'm just gonna post this time but there's been a lot of spamming already. And I've deleted them. I mean, you can't vote twice more than twice. It wouldn't be fair to others who only voted once.

So I deleted those votes by the same IP.

Poll Results Notification
Someone has just voted in your Bravenet Poll Results.

You can view your Mini Poll Stats here.


The Question:How would you rate my site?
Their Answer:Terrible
Poll User IP:219.95.226.215

If necessary, you can use the Bravenet IP Banning Utility to ban this IP.


So that's what I'm doing. Haha. Poor you. You thought you could mess up my site? no. no. I've received 4 hits. and i'm gonna remove the 3. stupid you!

There's no point in voting more than twice right? Especially if you're saying that my site is terrible. DUH!






Anonymous HATES Me

Posted at 01:09 AM | 14 comment(s)

This is the person spamming my minipoll.

I think the spammer's using dial-up. I haven't checked yet with my IP tracker.

I've received a comment.

From the entry: 3 Questions.. dated: May 13, 2004.

/* Anonymous user Anonymous has responded to your comment: */
1. Why is your layout so ugly?
2. Why you always act like a html expert, since you are a loser at it.
3. Take this site down!


Since I'm so kind, I'm gonna answer your questions here. Don't you like that? You'll be famous!

1. Why is my layout ugly? You're the one who's thinking that. I don't think my site's ugly. If it is, why would thousands of people visit my site right?

2. I'm not acting like an HTML expert. I've always said that I'm not an expert so I don't charge for the layouts I'm making. You know, if I know in my heart that I'm an HTML expert, I wouldn't be doing free layouts for other tabulas users and friends. And am I a loser? I don't think so. Why would people even request for layouts if they don't like my style, right?

3. I don't want to take my site down. This is my own site and you have nothing to do with this. And, that's not a question.



So, the next time you comment make sure you're correct or in the right sense. You don't even own this site so you have no say at all as to whether I take this down or not. If you think my layout is ugly, then go ahead spread the word. And then ask them to view my site and ask them too what they think. If my site is really ugly, why would people even bother visiting my site? Why would they bother to tag my tagboard and tell me things such as, "Lovely site!", "Cool layout! Love it!", "I'm a Sex and the City fan and I think your blog is really cool and fabulous!", etc. The next time you make criticisms make sure you're in the right of way, okay?

EDIT: By the way, you should place your name and a contact address so that I could thank you. And if you don't want to visit my site then don't. Nobody's forcing or asking you to. I don't have any formal training in HTML so I'm really not an expert. And if I'm an expert, I won't be making free layouts coz service by experts ain't FREE.



Currently feeling: bouncy



Psychology Test

Posted at 01:19 PM | 10 comment(s)

This is a question I've recently read in a forum and also on Paula's site. :)

NO CHEATING. After you read the situation and the question don't think of what your answer should be. The first answer that pops out of your mind is the real answer. :) Okay? I'm warning you, if you cheat, you'll have no fun.

SITUATION:

Somebody, perhaps a friend of yours, passed away. On the way to the funeral, your sibling tells you about this person he/she sees potential in--as a lifetime partner, that is. When you arrive at the cemetery, you realize that you are actually attracted to your sibling's soon-to-be-other-half. The moment you get home, you kill your sister/brother.

QUESTION:

Why did you kill him/her?

[If you have an answer, you can now scroll down.]













































If this was your answer:

"So there will be another funeral. That way, I'll see the guy/girl again."

Then you have the mind of a serial killer.


Some time ago, This question was asked to a group of serial killers for a study and almost 90% of them answered that.



Freaky, huh? Those serial killers don't have a heart. No attachment. Killers only would have the heart to kill their siblings. Cold. Dangerous. Kills only to satisfy the urge to kill. The smell of fresh human blood.


So what did you answer?






Feet Fetish

Posted at 02:22 PM | 10 comment(s)

Being the feet fetishist that I am.



Disclaimer: The above picture doesn't showcase my foot. The foot in the picture is not mine.

Visit this:

A Blog of Feet


I love sexy feet. Well-manicured or not. :) Is that bad? Does having a fetish bad? I look at everyone's feet first before their body. ooh!



Currently feeling: amused



Yey! I'm back.

Posted at 10:59 PM | 2 comment(s)

After being gone for 2 days, I am back. And I'm here to blog again.

I'll say in the succeeding posts what happened. :) Anyway, thanks for all those visits and tags and comments! Keep them coming!

I've got 500 hits this past 2 days. That's cooL!

Anyway, I'll update soon on what happened after I left. It's got lots of pictures that's why I'm still gonna upload them first.

Check back often.

Updates:

Anonymous got scared and didn't come back.

Friendster still sucks. Will it stop sucking?



Currently feeling: amused



My Crush

Posted at 11:19 PM | 17 comment(s)

I got this crush...

Sources says his name is Peter and that he's a model. He stands about more than 6 feet high and is a graduate of La Salle. He's also 26 years old (?).

We first met here at G-Unit Net Cafe and I doubt if he still remembers me. But then, the second he came here, he's with a girl. It might just probably be his girlfriend. But I'm not planning to have a relationship with him. We're too mismatched. Haha.

Look how cute he is.

(Click to see his pictures)

I like his last picture. He looks so great there. :) Now, isn't he handsome?



Currently feeling: cheerful



Fun During Yoyong

Posted at 11:15 PM | 7 comment(s)

Classes were suspended. We were all home. Camera is available. What do camwhores do?

It started early in the morning. We were not yet even taking a bath or a shower. But, who said it's too early to take pictures? So there I was with my sisters, Mariah and Trisha, with camera in hand. Oblivious to the outside world and the storm raging, we started taking pictures. So there we were like fools having fun. We were really being silly. Making faces to see what we really look like in the camera. Now the picture on the left is me with glasses on. I've always wondered how I would look in a photo with glasses on. So judge me by the looks. Do I look alright? I seldom wear my glasses. Reasons: 1) I don't think I look good with them on. 2) My grade is different now. 3) It's 3 years old. 4) The nose pads are missing. 5) I want contacts or maybe new ones with a fashionable frame. So tell me in the comments section how I look ok? I really wanna know.

(Click to see more)

*Remember I wanna know what you think!*



Currently feeling: amazed



FPJ's death

Posted at 01:33 PM | 2 comment(s)

Arroyo mourns loss of Poe

Updated 07:23am (Mla time) Dec 14, 2004
INQ7.net

PRESIDENT Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo shared in the grief suffered by the family and the millions of Filipinos who mourned the loss of popular actor of Fernando Poe Jr. who died early Tuesday morning, according to GMA Network’s Unang Hirit morning newscast.
In a statement, Ms Arroyo said: “Fernando Poe Jr. was a good man, a worthy adversary in politics and a great Filipino.

“I prayed hard for his life after I heard the news of his sudden illness. He still had much to do for our people and this tragedy comes as a shock to us all.

“I mourn with the millions of Filipinos who loved him dearly and held him up as a symbol of their deepest aspirations. This is a time to gather around our common feelings of grief and loss.

“I condole with his wife and family and I shall always pray for his eternal rest in the hands of God.”

The 65-year-old former presidential candidate and screen idol, popularly known by his initials FPJ, fell into a coma after a massive stroke over the weekend and never recovered. He passed away at exactly 12:01 a.m. Tuesday at the St. Luke’s Medical Center in Quezon City.

Poe’s remains were immediately brought to the Arlington East Garden Chapels in Pasig City and this will be transferred later to the Santo Domingo Church in Quezon City where a wake will be held.

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Poe passes away

Updated 09:42am (Mla time) Dec 14, 2004

(UPDATE) MOVIE star and former presidential candidate Fernando Poe Jr. passed away shortly after midnight Monday.

Poe, 65, popularly known by his initials FPJ, fell into a coma after a massive stroke over the weekend and never recovered.

“Mabigat sa aking loob na ipaalam sa inyo na patay na si FPJ” [With a heavy heart I wish to inform you that FPJ has passed away], his wife actress Susan Roces said in a statement, which was read in to press by Poe’s former campaign staff Susan Tagle.

“I’m very sad to announce that Mr. FPJ passed away at 12:01 a.m. despite aggressive resuscitative and therapeutic measures,” said Poe’s attending physician Dr. Abdias Aquino, head of the Stroke Service of the Institute for Neurosciences of St. Luke's Medical Center in Quezon City.

Representative Francis Escudero, a spokesman for the political opposition, also announced Poe’s death.

Roces thanked the public for praying for her husband. “Let remember him with joy,” she said. “The Filipino people was in his heart.”

Roces and other family and friends had surrounded Poe since he was rushed to the hospital Sunday.

Poe’s remains were brought to Arlington chapel. Arrangements are being made for his wake, said Marichu Vera Perez Maceda, who was quoted on GMA Network television.

“Lets pray for the soul of FPJ,” actor Richard Gomez said.

Poe was rushed to the hospital after he fell unconscious during a party at his FPJ Productions studio compound Saturday. Doctors said he suffered from a blood clot in his brain.

Poe was on life support systems before he died.

A self-made millionaire, Poe lost the election to President Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo in May by over a million votes. He filed an electoral protest with the Presidential Electoral Tribunal, saying he was cheated.

After the election he kept a low profile, staying out of public eye and only occasionally attending showbiz functions.

Poe was a reluctant presidential candidate in May, but was cajoled into leading the opposition ticket at the request of his good friend, ex-president Joseph Estrada, who was ousted by a popular revolt in 2001 and was replaced by Arroyo.

Estrada is in jail while being tried for massive corruption.

Poe, who was also known as "Da King," had built a successful movie career and film business. His production company FPJ Productions is said to be one of the biggest in the country.

Outside of the Philippines, Poe was a relatively unknown figure until he decided to stand in this year's presidential election despite his total lack of experience in politics.

He promised very little to the voters. "Breakfast, lunch and dinner" was the slogan of his faltering campaign, which saw him blow a huge opinion poll lead to arrive at election day trailing incumbent Arroyo.

Poe's campaign was more about showbiz than politics. His aides were film stars and his bodyguards were stuntmen, and he liked to pepper his election speeches with some of his most famous one-liners.

Some of his closest friends have said that he was reluctant to stand for the presidency and only did it as a favor to his old friend and acting buddy Estrada.

Born Ronald Allan Kelley Poe, the son of film star Fernando Poe Sr. -- the real-life Fernando Poe Jr. was his elder brother -- and an American mother Elizabeth Kelley, Poe always seemed destined for a life in the movies.

Poe dropped out of school at 15 after his father died and took a job as a messenger in a film exchange office. Later he took bit parts as a stuntman for Everlasting Pictures before being given his first real acting role in the film "Son of Palaris" in 1950.

Poe’s biggest break was in the film "Lo Waist Gang" in 1956. It marked the local cinemas shift from the fantasy world of costume productions to the trendy realism of action movies.

He starred in some 200 films specializing in Robin Hood-style guerrillas and honest cops who overcame fearsome odds, corrupt politicians and gangsters to secure victory for the common man.

Poe was "Ang Panday" ["The Ironsmith"], a working class hero who struck down challengers with a giant magic sword modeled on King Arthur's Excalibur.

Through his years in the spotlight, Poe had guarded his privacy closely and tried to cultivate an image of incorruptibility, revealing little about his supposed storybook marriage to Roces.

However the image slipped a little in February when Poe was forced to admit he had fathered a child out of wedlock with a minor starlet, denting his reputation as "Mr. Clean."

He leaves his wife and daughter, Mary Grace.

©2004 www.inq7.net all rights reserved


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Ok. So we were against him being our President. But of course, he's an actor. And it doesn't mean that if you're an actor/director/writer that you can be a political leader. No! So we were against him as a President.

But really, behind his action star facade is a really nice guy. That's according to his friends' testimonials. It was all so sudden how he died. I know he still have a lot of dreams but then why does he have to die this sudden. I was kind of shocked. Though I'm no FPJ fan I still really mourn for his death.

Imagine, only 65. But then, that's already past the life expectancy rate. It was all so really sudden.. A sudden stroke. A coma. And never getting out of it.

Oh God. May FPJ's soul rest in peace. I'm so sorry I so judged him harshly. Though many people did too I'm unhappy because I shouldn't have judged him as "bobo", "no-brainer in politics", should've been better in the movies. God, we're sorry that we had been harsh and critical to him. Now that he's dead, his memory shall remain with us.

Goodbye FPJ!



Currently feeling: crushed



On Teenage Pregnancy

Posted at 03:08 PM | 10 comment(s)

I've seen this article at inq7.net and I couldn't agree more.

At Large : Teens, sex and parenthood

Updated 02:05am (Mla time) Dec 14, 2004
Rina Jimenez-David

TALKING about sex and teenagers is like shouting "Fire!" in a crowded movie house, American columnist Ellen Goodman once wrote. Acknowledging their children's sexuality can be a painful wrench for parents, who must from that moment surrender their illusions about their children's innocence. Indeed, every parent's nightmare is to be told by one's adolescent child that she is pregnant, or that he has gotten some girl pregnant. Even if intellectually parents know that there is no way they can monitor their child's every move and be entirely responsible for his or her behavior, a child's untimely motherhood or fatherhood still provokes overwhelming feelings of guilt, shame and self-recrimination. Indeed, in this case, the "sins" of the child are visited upon the parent.

The current talk of the town, or at least of the segment that takes show business gossip seriously, is the pregnancy of actress and TV host Rosanna Roces' 15-year-old daughter, with the actor-son of Sen. Bong Revilla, himself an actor, as the "culprit."

What struck me about the interviews with both Roces and Lani Mercado, mother of the father-to-be, was that, while Roces was all calm assurance and support for her daughter, it was Mercado who was shedding tears and expressing remorse and regret at her son's early fatherhood.

This flies in the face of the conventional view. Usually, teen-age pregnancy is seen as primarily the girl's -- and the girl's parents' -- problem. It is the girl and her parents who must bear the greater share of the emotional and even physical and material burden. Not only is it the girl who must go through nine months of pregnancy and hours of labor (and given her youth, who must put her life on the line as well), it is also she who bears much of the shame, blame and sacrifice.

* * *

HOW often have we heard parents of boys declare, for instance, that they have nothing to worry about their sons' sex education since the boys "will not be the ones getting pregnant"? As if pregnancy were the only unwanted consequence of casual, unprotected sex.

And how often does it happen that when a pair of high school students confront an unwanted pregnancy, it is the girl who must stop schooling and even go into hiding, while the boy continues with his usual activities, like nothing happened? The argument of school officials is that a pregnant teen walking the halls of school is a constant "bad example" to other students who might be tempted to emulate her. But what of the young father? Is he not, by blithely carrying on as if he didn't face new and serious responsibilities, also setting a "bad example" to his peers?

Indeed, this was the case with the young celebrities. It was Roces' daughter who had to stop going to school, feeling her friends and classmates were gossiping about her. The young Revilla, as far as I know, continued with his usual activities, including an active career on TV. As the interviews revealed, his parents even requested Roces to keep her daughter away from public view, mainly to protect the young Revilla's budding acting career.

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I DO agree with Lani Mercado that it is still "wrong" and worrying for two adolescents to be taking on the responsibilities of parenthood at so early an age (both her son and Roces' daughter are to be parents at 16).

But I was gladdened, in some way, by Rosanna Roces' attitude -- or at least the demeanor she displayed on "The Buzz" -- that neither she nor her daughter had anything to be ashamed of. Instead, she chose to view the impending arrival of her grandson as a blessing, a gift, even.

Still, I noted that neither Roces nor Mercado, nor any of the hosts of "The Buzz" saw fit to mention contraceptives, or the need for sexually active young people to protect themselves from the unwanted consequences of early sexual activity, be it an unplanned pregnancy, a sexually transmitted infection, or heartbreak-on their part or their parents'. After all, such a situation need not have come to pass. While there is much to be said against 15-year olds engaging in sex, the situation need not have escalated into an unwanted, unplanned, mistimed pregnancy-and its consequences such as the interrupted schooling of the mother and the nipped-in-the-bud career of the father-if only the young people had known about and cared to use protection.

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ALONGSIDE this bit of sizzling showbiz gossip are news bits about young mothers, most of them poor and ignorant, facing charges for their attempts to kill or abort the child in their wombs.

One mother expressed "shock" when, while sitting on a toilet seat after suffering stomach pains, she found a baby shooting out from her. Too late did she remember to catch the infant before it landed headfirst in the toilet and then, fearing the baby dead, she tried to stuff it in a garbage bin.

The situation would have been funny were it not for the fact that the baby nearly died from its mother's ministrations, though fortunately neighbors rushed both mother and child to the hospital just in time. The TV news footage then showed a repentant young mother, now claiming to love the baby she had nearly killed.

How could someone be so ignorant or naive? we might ask. The painful answer is that the clueless young mother is typical of young Filipinos, who as surveys show muddle along with little knowledge about sex and sexuality, given our reticence about such matters and the paranoia of moral guardians who feel sex education will produce a generation of “disgrasyadas.” News flash: Unless we change this situation of willed ignorance soon, we will be putting at risk even more such young mothers and their innocent, blameless offspring.

©2004 www.inq7.net all rights reserved


In my own opinion, I couldn't agree more on what the writer said. Young teens are having sex more often and maybe really more often than their parents do. Imagine, a 15-year old girl pregnant. HORRIBLE! I can't accept the fact that a lot of teens now are having pre-marital sex. What happened to the world?

There are a lot to blame. First, the parents, for lack of education and guidance. That wouldn't have happened if they counseled their kids and talked them out of doing it. Second, the government, for not enabling the school teachers to teach sex education. Third, the church, for not holding sex ed classes and family planning well. Fourth, the media. It was the media and the entertainment business who condones this kind of conduct. They promote everything and show the world that it's okay. That's why a lot of teenagers are getting curious and wanted to try it out. Fifth, the teens themselves for lack of responsibility. If you want to have sex, please, use contraceptives. Babies would be born in this world and they're so innocent of your faults and irresponsibilities. Couldn't Jolo at least get a condom? Duh! There are vendos everywhere and you can even buy it in a convenience store.

What has happened to the world? Children are being led astray. Don't they even have plans for the future? Don't teenagers have plans that would surely be ruined by early pregnancy? I do have plans and I'm not even gonna think about having sex just to ruin my life. NO! Girls, your boyfriend doesn't care for you or love you if he insists that having sex with him would prove your love for him. Love can't be proved by sex. It can't. Sex is just a sidedish or the dessert. Love is the main course. You may or may not have a sidedish or dessert but you surely can have just the main course.

Which reminds me, I heard a conversation in the mall:

Little Girl: Ma, won't you buy me a bra and some lipstick?
Mother: For what? You're too young to use one.
Little Girl: So that I'll be IN in school and so that I can have a boyfriend.
Mother: *dumbfounded*

See? The world has gone crazy. Who said that you need a bra and a lipstick to be IN or to be COOL or to have a BOYFRIEND. And she's too young. When I saw the girl, she was just 8 years old. Believe me, I couldn't help but *tsk tsk*. That girl might have a baby by 12. Please no. She couldn't bear the pain and her hips are too slim to handle a child. *deep sigh*

Where is salvation in this world?



Currently feeling: annoyed



Tabulas Hacked!

Posted at 08:52 PM | 20 comment(s)

I was about to log in to Tabulas and typed http://www.tabulas.com and I was directed to http://home.tabulas.com. And this is what I saw:


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I think Tabulas is hacked. That page also has a background music of Usher's Yeah.

Waah. If I wasn't smart enough to type in http://www.tabulas.com/private then I wouldn't have been redirected to the login page.

Haay. Good luck to Roy.

Currently listening to: Only One by Yellowcard

Currently feeling: cheerful



Tabulas OK Now!

Posted at 11:53 PM | 4 comment(s)

I checked http://www.tabulas.com/ at around 11 pm and:


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Yey! What happened to tabulas then?



Currently feeling: cheerful



About Upcoming Birthday

Posted at 12:27 AM | 9 comment(s)

I received this in my mail just this 12 midnight.


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And so I am about to be 17 on the 17th. This is supposed to be special for me since this event only happens once a lifetime. I don't get to be 17 on the 17th twice you know.

But I really think that this would be the worst birthday and this Christmas would be the worst. It's just so sad with all the problems I have. That includes the family feud between parents and grandma.

*sighs*

So on Friday, what should I do? Should I make that day special by doing something else? Or just pretend that it's not my birthday?

*sighs again*



Currently feeling: curious



Another Layout Done!

Posted at 07:44 PM | 11 comment(s)

This layout I made was for Coco.

Click here for the screenshot.

There's actually a problem with her site. She still is not editing the ABOUT ME section entitled THE PRINCESS.

And the FRIENDS section is not working. It's on javascript like my TABULAS FRIENDS thing and it's not working on her. I suggest that she should check the code and see if it's on one line. Maybe it's not on a single line that's why it ain't working. I need to tell her that. :)

And she should really edit the ABOUT ME thing. It's not nice to see *add description here* on the ABOUT ME right?

Anyway, cheers to you all!

P.S. The layout's not really impressive huh? It's simple. Gosh.

P.P.S. After making that layout which was a week ago, I simply have to rest in making layouts. It kinda makes me tired. Though I'm learning and all, it's just like I can't be merry enough in spite of the fact that Christmas is fast approaching, and my birthday too which is tomorrow. Haay. I still have 2 more requests to fill in. Sorry for the delay, guys. Hope you understand.



Currently feeling: accomplished



Happy Birthday to Me!

Posted at 12:01 AM | 43 comment(s)

It's my birthday!

Happy 17th Birthday to me!



Currently feeling: happy



How My Birthday Went

Posted at 12:28 AM | 17 comment(s)

The first second that passed after I turned 17 was utter silence. All you could here in the computer shop was the clink clink of the keyboard and the other sounds coming from what they're doing.

After 5 minutes. I couldn't stand it anymore. I walked up to my mom and kissed her.

Whew. At last, she greeted me loud and clear. Yey. The whole bunch of people in our computer shop at last, greeted me. I was happy of course, they sang for me.

Ok. So it's my birthday, now what?

I've had a lot of PMs from friends and other Tabulas users greeting me Happy Birthday that midnight.

So glad they remembered. Wasn't that sweet and thoughtful?

Anyway, we closed the shop at about 1:30 in the morning.

Walked home and stopped by at the sari-sari store to buy some drinks.

After that, went home and slept.

My siblings woke me up at about 6:30 am. That was to greet me. It was 6:30 and what were they doing in the house? They should be in school. So they're LATE for school. Mama woke up late and they're all late for school. Unfortunately, there are four of them preparing for school and there's only one bathroom. Some of them didn't even take a bath. But they surely brushed their teeth. :) Anyway, Mama have to go with them to school so that they won't be reprimanded about their tardiness.

Anyway, I was asleep at that time. Mama just gave some orders but then I was still really sleepy so I kinda forgot what they were about.

She was back home anyway, to maybe prepare for lunch then she went at G-Unit Net Cafe to open it. I think it was about 10 am. And I was still sleeping. She just asked that I should watch out for the arrival of Patrick and Trisha so that I could open the door for them.

About 10:30 am, I got out of bed. Still dizzy and went to the living room. Opened the TV and the DVD player. Switched the TV to DVD mode and then popped in F.R.I.E.N.D.S dvd. I'm nearly finished with series 2. After a few episodes, they arrived and I cooked barbecue in the oven toaster for lunch. Cool huh?

Anyway, after about 15 minutes, we're eating barbecue and rice for lunch in front of the TV watching F.R.I.E.N.D.S. Mikey came seconds later and asked him to cook his own barbecue. Gawd. I'm so addicted to F.R.I.E.N.D.S now.

Anyway, after watching. We all prepared ourselves to go out. I told them we're going somewhere coz it's my birthday.

After an hour we're ready. But before that, Mama dropped by and said that her cellphone was stolen and she asked Mikey and Patrick to go look for the girl who stole it. They're gonna look for her around the village. So Trisha and I left minutes after they went.

Anyway, Trisha was crying. I don't know. She's kinda depressed coz that's the only cellphone we have in our house and that's our only way to communicate with someone. And she also has this petty reason that her favorite cellphone games were there: Snake, Bumper, and Space Impact. *sigh* That's what kids really think. By the way, Trisha gave me a gift right after she came home. She said she has three gifts for me. The first one is LOVE. The second one was a Christmas card which was doubled as a birthday card and she wrote there so thoughtful words. She's sweet, I know. The last one was six Choco-Choco sticks. Haha.

Anyway, when we got in G-Unit Net Cafe, I immediately asked Mama what happened. She told me all about it and then she asked me to stay for a while so that she could report the incident. FYI, the barangay hall is just steps away from us.

Kids were also helping out, they were on a manhunt.

Anyway, no luck. She can't be found. Worse, the cellphone could never be retrieved.

After talking about it and refreshing I was asked to go home so that I could wait for Mariah to come home. So I went back to watching F.R.I.E.N.D.S and waited for her to come. Papa and Mikey came an hour later for no reason. Pa greeted me happy birthday. :) Anyway, I still went back to watching the series and it was about 4:30 in the afternoon when she came home. I immediately asked her to take a bath and dress.

An hour later, they're all ready and we went back to G-Unit Net Cafe. Mama, Mariah, Trisha, and I all went to celebrate my birthday. Since it's already late, we couldn't go to Makati anymore. Instead, guess where we went. SM Sucat.

We first stopped by National Bookstore, since maybe I figured that they could get me a book as a gift. But then we just decided to see a movie. We bought food first, and guess where. McDonalds.

So we went to the 3rd floor and checked out the movies. National Treasure. Bad Santa. Bridget Jones 2. And something like George and the Dragon. Bad Santa was the only one that was appealing to us. (though I was really checking out Bridget Jones 2, but they weren't interested in that) Turns out Bad Santa is R-13 so Trisha can't go in. We decided that we won't see a movie this time.

We went to the Food Court at the 2nd floor and ate there our McDo meals. Good thing we didn't go see a movie coz they didn't give us spoons and fork to use with our chicken meals.

Anyway, we had fun eating. Of course, it's McDo.

After that, we strolled a bit around the mall and decided to check out the shoes. Argh. They're so expensive. Besides, I think that the money I should be spending for my clothes, shoes, bags, and books would be well-spent if used for paying my siblings' tuition fees.

I was eyeing a lot of eye candy (chick translation as clothes, shoes, bags, accessories, and books) but have to hold myself back. I don't want to be reason if my siblings would be kicked out of school because we haven't been paying them anything.

So I said, maybe a shirt would do. But it costs more than books. And figured that maybe I could just reread my books 10 more times till I could memorize it and know all of them by heart. But then, I'm not that good. So I just bought myself a magazine, Seventeen's december issue. I don't know. I think it's kinda cute that I'm buying Seventeen on my 17th year on earth during the 17th day of december.

So instead, we went to KFC to buy dinner for my brothers. After that, we checked out GUESS coz it was on the way to the taxi line but then it's so expensive at GUESS so we didn't buy anything.

After getting inside the taxi. I want to sleep. I really feel so tired. And I feel so old. (that was just a side comment though).

whew. When we got to G-Unit Net Cafe, it was so damn full that I had to wait for like 3 hours to get a seat. And finally, here I am.


So far, a lot of unfortunate things happened today.

First, mama woke up late so all of my siblings were late for school. Second, my mama's cellphone was stolen. Third, we weren't able to watch a movie coz it's already late. Fourth, I didn't get to receive a birthday present aside from what Trisha gave me. Fifth, I didn't get to buy any book and I didn't get to shop either. Sixth, we ate at McDo so there was really nothing special. Seventh, the movie we could have watched was R-13 and we wouldn't want to leave Trisha behind. Eighth, we were at SM Sucat. So I better quit procrastinating.

But then, at least I get to go to the mall, browse books at National Bookstore, windowshop for clothes, shoes, and bags, eat McDo, buy a teen mag, watch FRIENDS early this day, and now get to surf the net.

Haay. I should just always look at the brighter side of life. But I really can't help looking on the dark side. I'm human after all.

Comments are very much appreciated.



Currently feeling: sad



Gossip_Girls

Posted at 10:09 AM | 2 comment(s)










I'll be gone for a while

Posted at 11:22 PM | 2 comment(s)

well, I won't be really gone for that long, maybe just 2 days or so.

I want to really rest, now, for those who requested for layouts especially ~shawarma, and my friend chike, I'm so sorry it's taking too long. I just have been busy with a lot lately, but I'll be doing it as soon as I can.

*sigh*

I need to catch up on my life. Guys, I do have a life. And that life is apart from what you see as blossom_017. I have my own life. And it's not just to help all of you with your layouts and HTML. I do want to help you, but sometimes, the line is really long. Please forgive me, I'll get back to all of you as soon as I can. :)

Thank you for understanding. God Bless and I Love You all!



Currently feeling: amused



2 Parties in 1 Day

Posted at 11:27 PM | any comment?

Yey! I'm back.

I went to two Christmas parties yesterday.

Highschool Friends Xmas Party

The meeting about that party was on Monday. Unfortunately, I wasn't able to go because I was manning G-Unit Net Cafe. Edlin, Paulo, Aprille, and Theresa E. just informed about my part in it and the usual stuff. This party was supposed to be for the 3-A class and other close friends but it was made in haste.

Call time was 3 in the afternoon and the party would be held at Cheanne's. My batch practises the Filipino Time which I so hate. I hate being late.

Yesterday, I cleaned my room then browsed some magazines before actually preparing for the Xmas party. I took a bath at around 2 in the afternoon. They told me not go there early. Haha. Anyway, I dropped by SM Sucat for some late-minute shopping. I bought M&M's chocolates (as prizes), exchange gift from BenchTM and dimsum wrappers for the next party. :) Gawd. The line at the counters there were really long. Before that, I actually went first to Globe. There was this friendly guy there that when thinking about later was actually flirting with me. Haha. Funny about that. That's why he's so kind to me. So accomodating and all. Anyway, even at the counters in the grocery and the boutiques they let me go ahead of them. Thank God. My charms must have worked! :slaphappy:

I arrived at Cheanne's house at around 4:30 in the afternoon. Some people were actually there. Thank God. Liezle was there too and Mario. Yey. I told them that I'll be going by 6:30 because I still need to attend another party in Laguna. It was around 5:30 and the number of people wasn't growing. Haay. The party started at around 6 in the evening. People starting giving out gifts and I was shy for a bit. I don't have any gifts for them this year. Aww. Sad. Anyway, exchange gifts, then waited for others to arrived. Before I went away, we played a game and then I got a gift in the "exchange gifts" portion and then hurried to 7-11.

When I got there, my family was already there. They were waiting for almost 45 minutes. Gawd. So sorry.


Haise Street Folks Xmas Party

And so, we traveled for like an hour to go to Laguna where another party would be held. This party is for the Haise (street where I live) peeps. Since I was a child, we've lived here and I have childhood friends here. We're pretty close then but highschool got in the way and a family moved to Laguna (their house is the venue for this party).

Now, I'm wondering why Aprille's family wasn't there.

Anyway, when we arrived there I was a bit shy coz I haven't seen them for years. The last time was 3 years ago. That's a lot to catch up.

This party is really great. I've bonded with my childhood friends again. Yey! I'm so glad and grateful to see them.

After eating dinner, we went upstairs and we chatted and bonded. Some good news and some not so good. Haay. It's so refreshing and so nice to hear what they have to say for themselves. We talked about friends, school, current status, relationships, and boyfriends.

*sigh*

I really want to have a boyfriend now. I'm not that desperate but I really want one now. There are a lot of suitors but I don't think I have my eyes on them. So sad. And by boyfriend, I mean someone who I can have a longterm relationship with.

I want a guy who's sensitive but not overly sensitive. I want him to be guy-guy and not girly-guy. I want him to be understanding. And most of all, I want him to love me. Plus, I don't really think I can be in a relationship with an old guy. (yeah, I have a lot of old guy suitors) I want someone taller than me even if I'm wearing heels coz I don't want to wear flats for the rest of my life. :) Haha. Basta, someone who really loves me.

Dear Santa, can that be my christmas gift this year? Thanks in advance! :loveeyes:



Currently feeling: amused



Another Layout Done!

Posted at 02:44 AM | 10 comment(s)

I made a new layout. Whew! I made it in like 4 hours. Oh gosh. I did everything in more or less 4 hours! :)

I'm so glad. By the way, this layout is for Frances Anne.

This was requested almost a month ago but I only had time just now. So Anne, I'm so sorry for the delay. May this be my Christmas present to you. Merry Christmas! :)

Now, for the screenshot, click here.

I think everyone of you would like this layout! So everyone, please tell me what you think about this. ok?!



Currently feeling: accomplished



Merry Christmas!

Posted at 07:18 AM | 7 comment(s)

Happy Holidays!

Merry Christmas everyone!



Currently feeling: cheerful



Happy New Year!

Posted at 10:42 PM | 2 comment(s)

Happy New Year everyone!

Have a great year ahead!

God Bless all of you!

And I love you all!

P.S. This greeting is extended to all Music_HTML fans.

Thank you all!



Currently feeling: energetic



Still on Break

Posted at 10:50 PM | any comment?

I've been really busy the past few days.

I can't believe the last time I posted an entry here was 6 days ago!

No!

Anyway, I'm back. I'm gonna tell most of the things that happened to me on my succeeding posts.

I'll keep you posted.

Anyway, Happy New Year.

To friends, I'll be posting entries about Nikki's Surprise 18th Bday Party and Samantha's Debut.

:)






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